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Ideas For Self Esteem Building
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Ideas For Self Esteem Building
How to build self esteem and add self esteem units (SEUs) to your child's memory banks
Your child's self-esteem is the level of positive memory chips in his or her brain. That means the number of positive experiences they have had with you as parents, with family and your community. There are several ways your child gets positive memory chips in his or her brain.
things said to your child;
the way people treated his/her desires, needs and goals;
how rapidly your child's pains, fears, angers and concerns were met by the people around them;
how people's eyes, body language and words welcomed you when you came into their presence;
things you read about people of your Mind Clone;
what Mind Clone you decide is most important;
what the culture you live in says about people in that Mind Clone;
things you overheard people saying about you or your Mind Clone;
how they are treated or things you saw being done to people in your primary Mind Clone;
things you actually experienced;
the things you have said to yourself-over and over;
supportive past experiences in your Mind Plains;
the kind of signs, pictures and images found in your home;
remembrances such as calendar images found in your home;
the nature of the religious words and your belief system;
your family type and how it relates to your childhood experiences.
Here are some of the methods and techniques parents can use and offer in building a successful child.
a. Very small increments of information or skill for learning
b. Clear step by step guidelines
c. Learning alongside peers
d. Each step builds on previously learned material
e. Repetition after repetition until learned at body level
f. Learning System Steps:
g. Continual support of body, mind and spirit learning
h. No criticisms based on time needed for learning
i. Understand each person learns at a different rate
j. Always seek to expand permitteds, to make exceptions to give a second chance
k. recognition and welcoming of brining of outside successes as school grades and as they feed into the success program we have
l. keep star cards or personal triumph files
m. Leadership developed from within the ranks
n. Learning facilitators developed from within the ranks
o. Continual lifelong learning
p. Increasing levels of responsibility
q. non ceiling on leadership levels that could be achieved
r. All ranks and elevation based on actual achievement, not political maneuvering
s. Encouraging vigorously the development of indigenous leadership from within the ranks
t. Deliberate building of self esteem
u. Creation of synergistic productivity
w. continual community building
x. active deletion of negative Mind Cloning
y. Level of status based don achievement, no Mind Cloning
z. Gentle, nonjudgmental correction
aa. Constant try again -"you’re getting there"
bb. rewarding successful attempts
cc. rewarding extra effort even though it does not succeed
dd. Always seek to err, to fall down on the side of compassion, to leave a margin for error or mistakes. Do not use cruelty, instead kindness and compassion, not exclusion, instead inclusion
To discuss these ideas, feel free to call Dr. Cross at 011-504-783-2293 or email her to sfl@hmradvencen.com
 Soccer For Life Has A New North American
Director To Head The Soccer Gear Donation Project,
Chris Watkins. He is a home schooled student in Florida who has just
finished a year in Honduras as an Intibuca Soccer
Volunteer. Chris first visited
Intibuca when he was six
years old. Chris is a soccer referee, and specializes in Goal Keeper
training. Chris is considered a "geek or techie' and is called the
"Gentle Giant" because he is over 6 feet tall at 17 years old and also
because of his gentle style of coaching of young players. Chris is an
avid gamer, operates through his own website the
MOTILES Gaming nexus under the name
of magelord-keeper. His goal in life is
to be a video game developer. He is presently the "go to" guy for any
computer or technology needs of Soccer for Life.
He has learned a lot in Honduras, playing both with teams and in the
streets, including what is called the
Honduran Way of Soccer. He is presently playing in the Liga Mayor
team Atletico Lenca which is registered with FENAFUTH. He has been
asked to tryout for the second division professional team Atletico
Esperanzano in January. He is helping to develop the
Honduran Soccer Mastery program for the
Ligas de la Comunidades Intibucanas. He will be interested in
communicating by email with gamers in the Far Cry world, Battlefield 2 world
and the Guild Wars world. Chris is an important part of distributing
your soccer gear in Honduras through the
donation concursos he runs. Just ship
them to
Soccer for Life, Inc. C/O Robert O' Bryant, 1060 NW
85th Street, Miami, FL 33150. Write Chris at Barrio Lempira, Frente ADEL, Contiguo COMIXCIL, Intibuca, Intibuca, Honduras, 011-504-783-0199 or 011-504-783-2293.
Email
him at magelord@hmradvencen.com |
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